After approaching the interests you need to gauge her reactions to see whether she’s interested in you in return. Sometimes the girl will make clear her interest but more often than not she will not show any obvious signs. If she does not show it openly, you have to have the intuition to know this so that you know whether your efforts will bear fruit or come to naught. So how do you tell that a girl is interested?
The first hints will come from her body language so you should be alert for some of the following things:
She may keep looking at the floor or the horizon meaning that she’s shy in your presence and is unable to look at you in the eye. However, she may also very well maintain eye contact and if you’re close enough to her, you should be able to notice that her pupils will be dilated and her eyes get narrow and softer when she’s around you.
She’ll take a moment to look out for you. Whether you’re far or in close proximity, she’ll text or call just to say hello to you. You’ll often catch her looking your way and looking away the moment she notices that you’ve seen her watch you. She may keep licking her lips unconsciously. This sure is an inviting sign for you to kiss her.
Watch her movements. Is she all the time finding reasons and excuses to show up where you are? If for example you’re in a college environment, is she suddenly taking her breaks near your favorite spot whereas she never used to in the past? Sometimes she may even be willing to attend a game or even which she would otherwise not be interested in.
Does her personality change when she’s in your presence? Maybe she gets bubblier or even more demure in character but if she’s into you, how she behaves around you is bound to change. She may be fun to be with and she will flirt a little here and there. She will also most likely change her voice when she’s speaking to you.
How does she react when you meet? If she’s interested in you, her reaction will be anywhere from giddy excitement to demure acknowledgement but other than that she’ll also be focused on you and she will take time to listen to what you’re saying to her and to participate in the conversation.
She will want to talk to you alone. If she’s the type who is always in groups of other girls, she’ll break away from them and come to you when she spots you. Take this as a sign that she surely is into you.
She will try as much as possible to get your attention. She may suddenly start paying more attention to her grooming and dressing. Even if these were good already, she’ll strive to make them better and hence make herself more noticeable.
She’ll not be amused if she sees you talking to another girl. If she were not interested in you she would not care who you talk to so if she gets grumpy or unhappy when you even as much as say hello to someone else, then she most certainly has noticed you and wants more of you.
She’ll not be afraid to hang out with you and your friends or even come to your house if you ask her to. This shows that she feels safe and secure around you.