I’ve always had the feeling that no matter how confident someone is they have one or two insecurities. There is that one thing that they can’t shake off and feel good about. Women in particular seem to have lots of them particularly when it comes to dating. I took time to think about it and compared notes with a few ladies I know. Here are the top 5 insecurities we all seemed to have in common
That you won’t call. I don’t think a guy will ever truly understand how important in is to call a lady after a date. A text just won’t cut it. There’s something about sitting and waiting by the phone for a promised phone call. When it doesn’t come on time, things go down hill. She will start doubting herself and won’t agree to another date. She’ll think she was terrible and that’s why you didn’t call. If you promise to call her the next day or 2 days later, please call. If you’re into games, it would be better to not give a definite time or date for the call.
The other thing we all seemed to agree on was women being insecure about the fact that you just want to sleep with her. There’s a line that men seem to play along when showing interest in a lady. If you make your move too soon, she’ll think all you want is to get into her panties. If you wait too long, she’ll think you’re not interested. The best way to work this one is to be sincere. If you’re actually interested in a relationship, let her know. She’ll send you the signal when she’s ready to move things further. Don’t rush her to do anything when she’s not ready
There is always that one insecurity that turns us into crazy women. The one where we thinj=k that a man is dating other women. It’s okay to date several people casually at one time. But you have to let them know about it. If she asks you about your relationship, be honest and tell her where it stands. If things start getting serious we tend to assume we are exclusive. if that’s not the case, you need to tell her before it’s too late.
Women might not want to reveal this, but most are insecure about you not being interested in them. Once in a while, she will be filled with doubts and you have to remind her. Ten years into your marriage, she can still get this doubts. You just need to find a way to remind her you’re interest in her is still firmly in place.
Women, just like men worry about how they’re doing in bed. At one time or another, she will be insecure about the fact that she’s not satisfying you in bed. Sex is a very sensitive issue, you have to let her know when things are going well. If not… well you have to bring that up in the most sensitive way. If she never knows where she stands in this department, the relationship will crumble and fail. Build her self-esteem up with compliments.
Women will always have insecurities. Try to reassure them about your feelings and talk it out if you want the relationship to work out.