Not every man is dateable and sadly, not all women realize this. There are particular kinds of men that women should avoid if they are looking to get into a serious and healthy relationship.
Here are the 6 types of undateable men
1. The mama’s boy
Men should love their mothers and treat them like queens. However, there is a difference between valuing your mother’s advice and being unable to function without her input. A man that is constantly asking his mother for her opinion even on matters that should not involve her such as his daily eating plan, is trouble brewing.
2. The lazy dreamer
There’s nothing worse than a non-starter and/or a non-ambitious man. He will talk big and sell you all kinds of dreams. The only problem is that he does very little to actually move towards accomplishing them. Even worse, he’ll complain about how unfair the world is and feel entitled to things he hasn’t worked for. This kind of man can be summed up as one disappointment after another. Word of advice, never lend this guy money. He has a habit of asking for loans to fund his latest dream and it never goes anywhere.
3. The shady charmer
Charming men are quite attractive I’ll admit. However, there is a limit to the charm. There are some men who turn on the charm only to get their way. This kind of guy is a pathological liar and is usually a con man or gigolo. He will wipe your accounts clean if you don’t watch your back and will probably sleep with your friends. Craziest thing is that he can talk his way out of the tightest spots. Stay away girls.
4. The control freak
This is a dangerous man. The kind that wants to know where you are all the time, wants to read your messages and wants to micro manage your schedule. He can be extremely jealous and can easily be violent as well. A relationship with him will lead to a diminished self-esteem and a black eye. When you recognize him, run!
5. The clingy guy
Alejandro and his undying love for Teresa is beautiful to watch. However, having a man that is constantly crying and pining for you is a turn off. This guy calls and texts you more than Safaricom during one of those promotions of theirs and will call if you take more than five minutes to reply his text. He’s the kind to cause a scene and make threats to kill himself if you break up with him. He’s simply way too exhausting.
6. The insecure underachiever
The guy that believes he never quite measures up and shows it to everyone. He doesn’t date women that are doing better than him and if he does, he finds ways to tear them down. His sense of worth is tied to how many people he’s beaten in life. Stay away from this guy for your sanity. He’ll drive you crazy especially with his talent for making you feel guilty if you’re ever doing better than him. It’s unfair to have to play yourself down because the person you’re with can’t be confident enough in themselves to be proud of your shine. It’s not worth it.